I'm writing this post really fast because it is something that has been on my mind for a couple days. And between my crazy kids, job interviews, and dog-sitting a super hyper dog, I haven't had time.
Well I'm making time now because I have a feeling someone needs to hear these words.
I have some friends going through some shit. Sorry to curse, but that's what it is. Friends are going through divorces, job loss, pregnancy complications and loss, and so much more.
And so many are putting on the brave face for everyone. I hope that this means that they have a support system they are able to talk about their problems with.
But I know this isn't always the case. And because of that, I want to remind all my friends that my inbox is always open for messages. I say my inbox because my life is crazy and I can't always accept a phone call. But I can always check my messages every so often and reply to you.
And if you don't feel like reaching out, I'll write some words here. You can bookmark this blog post and come back to look at it whenever you are having that rough day.
You are strong. You are going to make it through whatever you are going through. It will suck and at times you will feel like giving up, but don't. Focus on whatever the end goal is and remind yourself that it is worth all the rough stuff.
You are worth more than you believe. Your confidence may be at an all time low right now, but it doesn't have to stay that way. Find a few things you love about yourself and repeat them in the mirror when you are feeling low. Write them down if necessary and add to them when possible.
You deserve to be happy. And that looks different for everyone. So find what makes you happy and focus on that. Maybe that means that you treat yourself to a pedicure every couple weeks or maybe it means that you cook your favorite meals at home; it doesn't matter. All that matters is that you are happy.
This is temporary. Life is full of ups and downs. So this might suck right now, but that will change. I won't say it will get better because I can't guarantee that it will immediately. But it will change. And you might even look back at this time and realize you needed this to happen to show you something better in your life.
And when you are out of the bad you are going through, make sure you let people know that they can talk to you. Because there will always be someone that needs to talk or hear words similar to this.
So if you want to talk, feel free to message me. If you don't want to talk but need these words, come check out this post.
And know that people are rooting for you. People want to see you succeed. People want to see you happy.
Well I'm making time now because I have a feeling someone needs to hear these words.
I have some friends going through some shit. Sorry to curse, but that's what it is. Friends are going through divorces, job loss, pregnancy complications and loss, and so much more.
And so many are putting on the brave face for everyone. I hope that this means that they have a support system they are able to talk about their problems with.
But I know this isn't always the case. And because of that, I want to remind all my friends that my inbox is always open for messages. I say my inbox because my life is crazy and I can't always accept a phone call. But I can always check my messages every so often and reply to you.
And if you don't feel like reaching out, I'll write some words here. You can bookmark this blog post and come back to look at it whenever you are having that rough day.
You are strong. You are going to make it through whatever you are going through. It will suck and at times you will feel like giving up, but don't. Focus on whatever the end goal is and remind yourself that it is worth all the rough stuff.
You are worth more than you believe. Your confidence may be at an all time low right now, but it doesn't have to stay that way. Find a few things you love about yourself and repeat them in the mirror when you are feeling low. Write them down if necessary and add to them when possible.
You deserve to be happy. And that looks different for everyone. So find what makes you happy and focus on that. Maybe that means that you treat yourself to a pedicure every couple weeks or maybe it means that you cook your favorite meals at home; it doesn't matter. All that matters is that you are happy.
This is temporary. Life is full of ups and downs. So this might suck right now, but that will change. I won't say it will get better because I can't guarantee that it will immediately. But it will change. And you might even look back at this time and realize you needed this to happen to show you something better in your life.
And when you are out of the bad you are going through, make sure you let people know that they can talk to you. Because there will always be someone that needs to talk or hear words similar to this.
So if you want to talk, feel free to message me. If you don't want to talk but need these words, come check out this post.
And know that people are rooting for you. People want to see you succeed. People want to see you happy.
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